Share Your World 2017: Weeks 1, 2, & 3

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So Anxious Mom has been doing this Share Your World thing and I decided to check it out. It’s a challenge hosted by Cee over at Cee’s Photography. She poses a few questions each week that we’re supposed to answer. Apparently, Cee’s been doing this for a few years now, but I’m just joining in. Since we’re only 3 weeks into the new year, I’m going to answer the first 3 sets here and then will endeavor to keep up with it on the regular schedule (and in the future, the image above will link to the associated week’s post on Cee’s blog).

Week 1 (Posted January 2nd)

Would you prefer to receive a unicycle, bicycle, tricycle or motorcycle?
Bicycle. I used to love riding my bike all around the neighborhood with my friends growing up.

What is one thing you’d like to accomplish this year?
More crafty projects!  I only completed one sewing project last year and would really like to get back into both sewing and knitting and actually complete a few things.

What was one of the highlights of 2016 for you?
Watching Dom reach so many amazing milestones. It’s truly unbelievable how much babies develop and learn in their first year.

Would you prefer to fly a kite or fly in a hot air balloon?
Honestly, I would love to fly in a hot air balloon, though I’m sure I’d be petrified!


WEEK 2 (POSTED JANUARY 9th)

If you lost a bet and had to dye your hair a color of the rainbow for a week, what color would it be?
Blue. I always thought that could be fun as a teenager, but never had the balls to do anything. I’ve always been afraid to do stuff with my hair, to be honest.

If you could choose one word to focus on for 2017, what would it be?
This is a tough one. I’ll go with Family. I want to do family trips, activities, etc.

What was one thing you learned last year that you added to your life?
Being a mom/parent is hard, and it’s OK to admit when you’re struggling, and when you need help. No one is perfect and everyone needs help.

If life was ‘just a bowl of cherries’… which fruit other than a cherry would you be..?
Blueberries. I love them.


WEEK 3 (POSTED JANUARY 16TH)

Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed?
Closet doors are closed, I don’t like having them open. Bedroom door stays open.

Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotel?
Yes, I do. They’re perfect to use when traveling or going away for a weekend. And they often smell great! (A co-worker of mine collects them and brings them to a local women’s shelter. There is a lot of travel in our company as we have a few offices in other countries, not to mention trainings and conferences people attend, so she always collects a good amount)

What is your usual bedtime?
Between 9 & 10pm. I’m up around 5:30am every day for work, and generally still up relatively early on the weekends since, you know, 15-month-old.

Do you like to use post-it notes?
Yes, mainly at work. I tend to stick them all over my desk. And sometimes I abbreviate things assuming I’ll know what I meant later on. Of course, that’s not always the case.

When was the last time you wrote a letter to someone on paper?
I don’t remember. But I used to have a pen pal back when I was  younger, now thinking back it was probably close to 20 years ago (man I feel old when I can say something was 20 years ago). Her name was Lauren, we met on a cruise, and she was from Zimbabwe. We kept in touch for quite a while. I’m pretty sure I still have the packet of letters somewhere at my parents’ house.

Any phobias?
Not any true phobias. But there are definitely things that creep me out: certain bugs (things with lots of legs, for sure; blech).

How tall are you?
The question should probably ask me how short I am: 5’3″

I look forward to the other questions that’ll come up through the year!

Welcome to New England

I once read/heard “if you don’t like the weather, wait 15 minutes” in reference to New England. How true that statement is!

Last weekend, we had a snowstorm. On the weather maps, we were on the line between the 6-10 inch and 8-12 inch ranges (or something like that). The official total for my town turned out to be 6 inches.  And luckily, it was the lighter, fluffier kind of snow. So, not bad at all.

Below are some pictures of the accumulation (times are approximate; I lost the time stamps when I uploaded them to Google Drive and deleted them off my phone before double checking… I’m pretty certain of the first 2 times, less so for the last 2)

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Around 3:20pm

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Around 4:30pm

Around 6:30pm

Around 6:30pm

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Around 8pm (I think)

Next morning

The next morning

The weather warmed up slightly, enough for the snow to melt a little and then re-freeze, so we had some slippery spots in the yard for a little while.

Then, on Wednesday, the temperature was in the 50s, and the majority of the snow melted. Thursday actually went over 60, and the rest of the snow disappeared.

And now today, Saturday, the current temperature is around 21.

Like I said: Welcome to New England!

Reading Challenges

It’s been quite a while since I’ve participated in any reading challenges. I sometimes barely have time to read the books, nevermind review them! So I’ve decided to do my own twist on some challenges out there. I’m just going to try to read books that fit the categories for the challenges, and oh well if I never get around to reviewing. I won’t be linking up to the challenges (therefore will not be eligible for any giveaways that might be connected), but that’s OK because it’s really just for me. 🙂

Having said that, here are the few challenges in which I’d like to “participate” (I last participated in most of these in 2012/2013):
*Each has its own page within the 2017 Reading List link above
**All links below take you to the sign up page for the challenge, in case you’re interested/want to know more!

Back to the Classics 2017
Hosted by: Books & Chocolate

2017 Historical Fiction Reading Challenge
Hosted by: Passages to the Past

What’s in a Name? 2017
Hosted by: The Worm Hole

(and if you’re really interested in what other kinds of reading challenges are out there, Bev @ My Reader’s Block always participates/runs so many! Check out her list here)

Baking

I asked for some new bakeware for Christmas and I got some great Nordic Ware items. I wanted to get new stuff to update my stash of items with ones of better quality since I wanted to do more baking this year. I got a half cookie sheet, quarter cookie sheet, round pan, loaf pan, muffin pan w/lid, and a cast iron pan to make silver dollar pancakes with zoo animals imprinted on them. I like to make pancakes for Dom and thought this could be fun. I obviously made some for him on Christmas morning.

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The monkey and the lion came out the best

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new bakeware!

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All that remains of the batch

I’ve already used the muffin pan to make some Funfetti muffins (store-bought mix, I must confess). They came out great! (Don’t mind the messed up one near bottom right; the top got a little smushed in the carry case.. oops)

 

 

 

I also 20170102_214054got a frosting/decorating kit. I’ve never used more than a spatula to frost anything, and I assumed the kit would come with instructions for the various pieces, but it does not. Some are pretty self-explanatory, others I was a little unsure of. Any advice you have on using the stuff, or recommendations for things to use, please leave them in the comments!

 

 

20161225_213157Hubs also got me a mug cake cookbook, which I’m excited to look through. Not too long ago I attempted chocolate chip cookies in mugs and they did not come out very good. (sorry for the poor lighting in the picture)

 

 

 

 

 

I’m excited to start using my KitchenAid mixer more (a gift from a few Christmases ago) and all of my new stuff! I’m sure I’ll accumulate more over the year as well.

What are some of your favorite recipes?

Mom Musings: Raising a Reader

(picture from bloxi.com, found via google image search)

It was only a matter of time before I had a post like this, right? (I mean, look at my blog name, the original intent of this blog in my About Me, and search for the “With My Reading Buddy” tag, and I think you’ll get the hint, if you’ve missed it ;))

But I’m writing this now because I’ve been inspired by a few posts by Eric, at All in a Dad’s Work (Hi, Eric!). His is one of the blogs I was regularly reading for a while. As you know, I was away from the blogs for a bit, but when I started catching up, his was one of the first ones I went to. (Check him out; I love his “Questions I Asked My Kids” segments). Anyway, a few of his posts over the last couple of months (yes I had to go back a few months to catch up!) have been about reading with his two boys. They both seem to enjoy reading and talk about going to bookstores. I hope Dom is the same way as he grows up!

I try to read to Dom regularly. He has a bookshelf filled with books, and I’m always buying new ones. And of course he got a few more for Christmas. I have one memorized that I recite to him every night as we are settling into the rocking chair before bed (The Going to Bed Book by Sandra Boynton – one of the first books Dom played with, as you can tell by the missing corner).

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The beloved (memorized) bedtime story, sitting in our rocking chair

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The Pen

We have a “pen” set up in our living room (one of those enclosed gate things that you can configure into different shapes) where he plays during the day and I always leave a few books in there, as well. Lately, when I sit in it with him, he will bring a book over to me and then sit in my lap so I can read it to him (melts my heart every time).

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The most common book he brings to me — though he’s typically ready to move on by the time we reach the letter “N” (I also have this one pretty much memorized)

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Shelf in his bedroom

He knows what “book” is when you ask, which I love. Depending on where we are, he’ll either point to the small pile in his pen or the bookshelf in his bedroom. I’m always on the lookout for new books, so if you have any recommendations, don’t hesitate to leave them in the comments!

 

A few friends at work  are beginning to read the good chapter books with their kids (like Harry Potter), and that is something I so look forward to! (but I also don’t want to wish the time to speed up to get there!)

What are your kids’ favorite books? What’s your favorite book to read with your child(ren)?

Homemade Cheesecake

For the day after Christmas at my parents’ house (just a week ago), I decided to tackle a cheesecake from scratch. I used the KitchenAid Best-Loved Recipes cookbook recipe for Marble Cheesecake (p. 92).

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I don’t have any pictures of the prep as I was concentrating on getting it put together and in the oven as quickly as possible because I broke the first rule of baking: I didn’t read through the entire recipe and didn’t realize how much time it needed to bake and then refrigerate before we could eat it.

Because of that, the cheesecake wouldn’t have been in the fridge for the minimum required time (2 hours) before we had to leave for my parents’ house. Luckily, they live approximately 20 minutes away, and since it was a dessert, I was able to leave it in their fridge for more than the required time. (But I was nervous it wasn’t going to be good because of that).

The recipe says to bake the cake for 1 hour and 30 minutes. I did it for that long on the bottom rack. Next time, I’ll put it on the top rack and only do 1 hour and 15 minutes. It came out a bit too brown and the bottom, while not technically burnt, was pretty hard (I attribute to the brown sugar-to-graham cracker ratio in the crust; I think I might need more graham cracker)

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It definitely didn’t look anything like the picture in the cookbook. I didn’t do the marbling as they described (like I said, I was trying to get it in the oven as quickly as possible). I think I probably didn’t have enough chocolate mixed in, either. (as I was adding the melted chocolate to some of the batter, the chocolate bowl fell in the batter bowl, so a good amount of melted chocolate ended up on the bottom of the bowl instead of in the cake — definitely not getting my own cooking show anytime soon!)

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some pieces looked layered instead of marbled. (also, I only remembered to take the picture after I took the first bite :))

However, all in all, I was pretty pleased with my first attempt at a homemade cheesecake. Everyone who tried it said they liked it, so that’s good. It wasn’t perfect, but I’ll get there. I’d like to try a plain cheesecake, with various toppings to add, based on the individual’s preference.

Lessons learned/things I’d do differently for this recipe:

  • use top rack of oven
  • bake for less time
  • add a bit extra graham cracker to crust mix
  • try without chocolate
  • melt a bit extra chocolate in case of accidents 😉

2017: Realistic Goals (I hope!)

Having experienced my first year of motherhood and understanding exactly what that means, I’m hoping that the goals for reading, crafts, etc. I set for 2017 are more realistic than last year’s. I’m using the same break down as I did in last year’s goals post.

Books/Reading
I’m keeping the same goal as last year at 24 books. I hit 23 of 24 this year. Partly due to times where I just didn’t feel like reading, or wasn’t interested in reading what I do have (I have plenty of unread books on my shelf, so it’s not due to book availability, that’s for sure!) I’m also planning to give the Q&A a Day book another go.

Crafts
Sewing
I still need to re-organize my sewing space (could be part of the reason I never got around to sewing really anything this year, but only a minor hurdle). I told my husband I want to set aside 1-2 hours per week to dedicate to sewing. I’ll attempt to track it and see how well I can stick to it.
I want to finish those diaper pouch/changing pad combos, and need to add another one to the list! I want to sew a top, a dress, and bottoms (can be pants or a skirt). As for The Monthly Stitch Challenges, I hope to participate in one challenge and post it to their blog.

Knitting
I want to complete the My Cup of Tea socks I started this summer. I also want to complete 1-2 projects (a hat and maybe a scarf or another pair of socks).

30×30 List Items to Carry Over
There are still some items I’d like to carry over that we didn’t do (but I can cross ZooLights and Pay off 2 student loans off the list, so that’s good!)

  • NYC weekend – still want to do this, and still want to go see the Cirque du Soleil show (Paramour)
  • Make a pie & pasta from scratch – still have to make the pasta from scratch, but I did do a cheesecake from scratch! (I’ll post about that soon) — Since that’s not really a pie, I still want to make a pie, too!

New Blog Categories
I think my “Mom Musings” posts can be considered regular categories and no longer “new” ones, but I plan to continue with them. I aim to introduce Baking & Cooking posts, as I planned last year.

Other Plans/Activities
A few other things that don’t fall into the above categories. Some are repeats of this year and others are new.

  • Facebook hiatus – will do this again in January. It was a nice break and I’m noticing I’m scrolling/posting on it too much again. Need to get away from the screen and be more in the present. I may consider doing it another month in the year as well.
  • Limit TV time – along the same lines as above, just want to get away from the screen & be more present. Will try to limit TV time to after Dom has gone to bed, before I go to bed. (Or if I’m sick and want to binge)
  • Annual camping trip, of course — did I ever post about this year’s trip? I’ll have to go back and look.
  • Savings challenge – hubs and I are going to set a challenge for ourselves to see how much we can save for the whole year.
  • Library visits with Dom – our local library is about a 10 minute walk from our house, so I’d like to take Dom there on Saturday mornings sometimes in the year. I was looking at their website yesterday and they have a bunch of activities throughout the year.
  • Get moving again!
    • More walks! – I want us to get out and do more walks when the weather is nice (local trails, etc.)
    • Gym time – go to the gym 2-3 times per week. I’ve signed up at the gym at work and aim to go during lunch time (even if it’s just 30 minutes)

What are your plans for 2017?

ZooLights (Finally!)

So we finally went to see the ZooLights. This was something that I’ve wanted to do for a few years, even put it on my 30×30 list for 2014-2015. I think I might have hyped it up a bit in my head because it wasn’t quite what I expected but it was still nice and I think Dom enjoyed it. Only a portion of the zoo was available to wander around. Some of the animal exhibits had lights (for example, the Bald Eagles exhibit at the entrance had red, white, and blue lights wrapped around some of the trees). So we took a quick walk around those areas then headed over to the North Pole (Santa’s Castle, where we could take pictures with Santa, and little kiddie rides). There were such cute decorations and set ups.  I took Dom on the carousel.

My parents, mother-in-law, and brother-in-law joined us and then friends of ours and their little girl met us there, too.

I took a few photos of the North Pole. Enjoy!

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quick snap of Santa’s Castle

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my dad loves trains 🙂

Christmastime is Here…

As I type, Dom is napping and I have Christmas music playing from the Music OnDemand channel. Sonny is also snoozing on the couch next to me. Yes, this is a nice way to spend a little bit of time.

We started decorating the house a few days after Thanksgiving. Usually, we put our (fake, pre-lit) tree up the day after Thanksgiving, but this year we decided to get a real tree. We went to a farm in Boxford and found our tree. I was fairly excited as I had never picked out a real tree before.

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Ready to get home!

When we got home, we set up the tree in the base with plenty of water and let it settle. (It ended up sitting in the house undecorated for almost a week).

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Our naked tree waiting for its decorations

I think it was about a week later that I was finally able to get decorating. When I was little, my grandmother did a collection of Danbury Mint gold ornaments for each kid (one kid per year). My  mom carried that on for me for a little bit, so I have 3 full sets (a dozen in each set), plus each year’s specialty/bonus ornament. However, I end up only putting a few of those on each year since I’ve moved out. Between my ornaments, Mark’s from when he was growing up, and the ones we pick out together each year, our tree is becoming eclectic, but I love it. We decided that we will get ornaments from any place that we might travel to, and each year we’ll pick out one from the Hallmark store. We still need to pick this year’s out!

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Fancy!

This was the first year I had to wrap lights around a tree, and let me tell you, my (self-diagnosed) OCD wouldn’t let me do it once and be happy, I had to constantly make adjustments, with both the lights and the placement of the ornaments– I still catch myself making tweaks here and there. (Don’t worry, I’ve fixed that odd blank space since I took this picture; you can see the better placement in the next picture).

Over the last couple of weeks I’ve been wrapping presents and setting them up underneath the tree. I’m almost certain that each present under the tree will have between 1 & 300 pine needles stuck in the wrapping somewhere (the gift bags have a good chance of having around 300). Despite all of the falling needles and sweeping I do everyday, it makes me happy to look at it. (the tree looks slightly tilted in this next picture, but I promise it’s not; it’s just where/how I was standing when I took the picture.) And of course, there’s nothing like the smell of a real tree! (the sprays/candles/etc. make a good effort, but there is always something missing).

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Ready for Christmas!

We have just a few more items to get/wait for (thank you, Amazon Prime!), and then we’re all done! I get so excited to give presents to the recipients. I can’t wait until Sunday!

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and that you get to spend it with all of your loved ones.

Where Did 2016 Go?

Hi everyone! Remember me?

I’ve recently started playing catch up with reading blogs I follow, so forgive me for likes/comments on older posts. (for some of you I even went back to July!) It’s been fun playing catch up to see what’s been going on in your lives.

My M.O. this year seems to be fewer, longer posts. So, as I’ve cautioned with others, this is a fairly lengthy post (and my apologies in advance for the lack of pictures). This’ll be a catch up/year in review type post, using my 2016 plans post as a guide.

Baby D
First of all, to make my life a bit easier when typing, I’ll share that Baby D’s name is Dom. It’ll be much easier to type that than constantly writing “Baby D” (not to mention: what will I call him when he’s no longer a baby? — something that’s quickly happening!) I think my last post was about him turning 1. We’re now at 14.5 months and it’s amazing what’s happened in the last 2.5 months since I posted. For one, he never ended up getting around to crawling, just scooting around on his bum everywhere, and let me tell you, he could really pick up speed! But forget scooting, he’s now fully walking around like he owns the place. He started that at about 13 months. He’s too damn cute. I’m sorry, I’ll say it. He’s also starting to talk a little; clearly saying “mama” and “dada” and knowing who those words identify, he says “blll” for “ball” and “balloon”, “blllum” for a truck/car noise, and sort of saying “bumble” (as in the Bumble from Rudolph). Just because he has a limited vocabulary, though, does not mean he doesn’t understand! He knows his own name, and points to the right items when we say light, fan, Henry (his elf on the shelf), Sonny, hug, book, block, ring, penguin (decoration in the house), tree (our Christmas tree), candle, etc. It’s so much fun watching him figure things out. Just today he threw both arms up in the air when I said “touchdown!” He loves to eat, especially his veggies (corn, peas, and carrots are his favorites). He also has a sweet tooth, like his mumma. 🙂 He’ll be transitioning from “Infants” to “Toddlers” next month at the daycare. Can’t believe we’re already at that point!

Work
Work has been crazy busy. Lots of changes over the course of the year. I mentioned in another post that my manager of 3 years had decided to leave to pursue her dream of sailing down to the Caribbean. I am happy to report that she is absolutely loving it and is completely in her element. Follow her blog here! (we haven’t been as successful with Freddy, but he has had a few adventures that I need to add to his blog). The manager that took over has also left. I had 6 solid months working with her and really enjoyed that time. I definitely plan to keep in touch with her! I am now on my work break for the next 2 weeks (Friday the 16th was my last day in the office for the year. I’ll return on January 3). I am so happy to have this time off and recharge after all the changes we had this year. I still love my job and my team so will still look forward to getting back into things in the new year.

Reading
I set up my Goodreads challenge to complete 24 books this year. I’m at 22, so could potentially hit 24 by the 31st, if I set my mind to it. I joined the Book of the Month Club over the summer so have been getting a book each month (except for December, none of the options appealed to me so I skipped it — but I had 2 free credits for referrals which I used in November, so I still have 2 BOTM books to read — not to mention other books sitting on my real and virtual book shelves!)

Totally failed at the Q&A a Day book — but I can try again next year! (and the next 3 after that).  I think I fell off somewhere in April…

I haven’t used the reading nook at all, except to store more books, of course!

Crafts
Sewing
Right. So nothing to report here. I have done one of the diaper pouch/changing pad things for my cousin back in May (I have a draft post for it as I have a few others to make and wanted to put them altogether in one post). That is the only thing I have sewed all year. I laugh when I look back at my 2016 post and all the dreams I had! I didn’t have anything for any of The Monthly Stitch’s challenges, either. I completely underestimated the amount of time I’d actually have to sew. I pretty much did nothing I hoped to do at the end of last year. And because I fell behind in reading blog posts, I completely forgot about/never checked in about the #stichingsanta hosted by Sheila. Which, in retrospect, is probably a good thing, given that I never accomplished anything!

Knitting
I have completed a sock! I joined a socks KAL (knit-a-long) at the end of the summer and didn’t finish in time for the wrap up, but I’m slowly making my way through. I finished the first sock and will eventually finish the second one (I’m almost done with the cuff). I’ll post about those later on.

 30×30 List Carry Over
Well, I haven’t really done any of these either, but the year isn’t over yet! We have plans to do the ZooLights tomorrow!!! (Finally!!!!) We’ve also talked about going to a Cirque du Soleil show (Paramour) in NYC next year, so I’ll get there eventually. (I did see a different Cirque show this summer, Kurios, which was Amazing!) Won’t get around to the pasta from scratch this year, but I plan to make a cheesecake from scratch to bring to my parents’ house the day after Christmas (our new tradition started last year) — can that count toward a pie from scratch??

New Blog Categories
Baking & Cooking 
Haven’t attempted too much. I did make peanut butter banana bars at the end of last year which were pretty good (oh, I guess I mentioned them in my 2016 plans post). I tried a mug chocolate chip cookie and that was not so good. I’ve done the typical banana bread, chocolate chip cookies, etc., but I want to try more.

I also do pancakes & french toast pretty regularly. Recently the pancakes have been with Bisquick, but occasionally I’ll make them from scratch (depends on time!). Dom loves pancakes! and I love them with blueberries. (the other day I was so excited to make blueberry pancakes and when I sat down to eat them, realized I forgot to add the blueberries — I was so disappointed). I’ve also figured out that using whole milk makes the pancakes better! (I only have whole milk on hand because of Dom).

I haven’t done too much in the way of cooking (hubby does the cooking more often; I’m the baker). I have a couple of go to dishes (like meatloaf or pork chops), but I’m hesitant to venture out of my comfort zone because I don’t want to screw up dinner and then not have anything to eat! (especially now that Dom eats table food with us and no longer does the baby purees). But with some time off from work, maybe I’ll try something. I’m always going through the cookbooks I have and folding down pages of things to try, and then never get around to doing anything.

Mom/Family Posts
Probably the only successful part of my goals! (look for “Mom Musings” to see those posts).

So to wrap up: I definitely didn’t do pretty much anything of what I hoped to do. However, aside from a few things, I’m OK with that. It’s been a fast, busy year learning to juggle being a mom with a full time job, and trying to fit in things I did before Dom. I can only hope to learn more each year and figure out the right balance for me. I’ll do a 2017 plans post and hopefully make it more realistic so that my review post a year from now will be sharing successes across the board!

Mom Musings: One Year

Let me repeat that: One. Year.

I’m still struggling to believe how one year has passed by so quickly. This has been the happiest, most challenging, and most fulfilling year of my life. I can’t imagine our lives without him. He brings us so much joy and he’s just the best. Allowing myself a moment to brag: he’s the cutest, smartest, and funniest baby. His little personality is really starting to shine through and he makes me laugh more than anything (he must get it from his dad). He’s also a pretty friendly baby and loves to wave at everyone (though sometimes it’s a delayed reaction and he waves after the person walks away, but that’s OK).

Someone once said to me “the days are long but the weeks are short”, and I truly understand the meaning behind that now!

Part of me would love to start all over again (with Baby D, not a new one any time soon!), to be able to snuggle my teeny newborn again, watch all of these amazing milestones happen again, and if I’m being honest, make some changes (breastfeed longer and set a better sleep schedule/routine earlier than we did are two that specifically come to mind). Another part of me is happy to have some of these things behind us (you know, like the colic) and doesn’t want him to grow too quickly. And yet another part of me wants him to grow up just a little faster so we can start doing things together. It’s very conflicting, being a mum.

I don’t pretend that this has been all rainbows and butterflies, it really has been the toughest “job” I’ve ever had. The colic in the beginning was really rough. Going back to work full-time added its own challenges, and it’s certainly harder to make last-minute plans with friends. I don’t think I could be a stay at home mom because I definitely need the socialization, adult interactions, and the chance to apply my brain to things other than baby 24/7 that a full-time job outside of the house offers. But it can definitely be hard to spend so much time away from him. And when I have a day off part of me wishes I had more time off. And let’s not forget to mention the sleep! Or lack thereof. There have been some really tough nights… even recently, just a few weeks ago, we had a really crappy night with minimal sleep for us and we had a cranky Monday (or at least I did!); but I think we chalked it up to teething as his first tooth finally started showing up within a day or 2 of that night.

Today I’ve been periodically looking at the clock, thinking back to what I was doing a year ago. (at the time of typing this sentence, 9:41pm, a year ago we were in the hospital getting ready to meet our little man). In honor of that, I’ve set this post to publish at 11:42pm today, the time he was born.

I’m so excited to watch what the next days, weeks, months, and years will bring and all the other firsts and new things he’ll learn, and what we’ll learn by extension. Even though we may no longer be considered new parents, we still have a lot to learn and we’re always surprised by the new things he can do. I truly feel so blessed to have this little boy in our lives and I feel that I can’t always adequately express that.

So here’s to all the parents out there. I have a better understanding and appreciation of what it’s like to be a mom (though I still sometimes wonder when I even became an adult and can still be surprised that I’m a parent). And a special shout out to my parents: thank you so much for all you’ve done and continue to do for me & now for my little family; being a parent isn’t easy and I so appreciate all you had to do or may have had to give up for Kristen and me. And to the newer parents or parents-to-be out there reading this: it’s a wonderful experience and I wish you all the love, luck, health, and joy (and sleep) in your life with your new or soon-to-be babies.

(Side note: today is my WP anniversary! I started this blog back in 2011)

Hello!

It’s been ages since I’ve posted or read blogs (shame on me!) but things have been so busy.

Baby D is 10 months now; insane. 

I’m planning to do a catch up post soon, but just wanted to say hello in the meantime. 🙂

Freddy the Cat’s Travel Adventures

This is just a quick post to introduce you to Freddy and a new blog 🙂

My former boss, Linda, announced earlier this year that she was going to leave the company to pursue a dream of an extended sailing adventure (you can follow her on her blog: Argon Voyages). I’m not kidding! Her last day was this past Friday. I was emotional about it as she and I have worked very closely for the last 3 years and I consider her not only a great manager and mentor, but a friend, too. Anyway, one of our colleagues gave her Freddy the Shipwrecked Cat (who has his own story). Instead of taking him aboard her boat, she decided to leave him here so he can make the rounds among the team, both in our Massachusetts office as well as our office over in the UK. So, we decided to take it one step further and set up a blog to record Freddy’s adventures (whether they’re in the office or on vacation/at home with colleagues). This way, we – including Linda – can all follow Freddy’s adventures. So all that to say, follow Freddy! Freddy the Cat’s Travel Adventures

(I’m just getting the blog set up this week while I’m on vacation so it’s bare bones at the moment, but check back to see what he’s up to, and be sure to follow Linda, too! — This past weekend they sailed from Boston to Nova Scotia (about 52 hours sailing straight through.)

Mom Musings: 6 Months In

Well, this is a couple of days late, but Baby D is officially 6 months old! I cannot believe how fast the time has gone by. So much has happened and it’s crazy to think we’re already in April.

I’ve been back to work since early January and I’ve settled into my old, pre-baby routine, which is nice, if I’m being honest. D is either at the daycare on the first floor of my building or he’s with my parents, so I don’t have to worry and can put my energy and focus into my work. (it also helps that on the couple days he’s at the daycare I can go and visit him on my lunch break! — it’s nice to see his face during the day).

Overall, it’s been a whole new routine and lifestyle to get used to, and while it’s a lot of work and very tiring, I wouldn’t change it for anything. He’s brought so much joy into our lives, it’s incredible. But I definitely won’t say it’s been easy. Being a mom is one of the hardest, but most rewarding things I’ve ever done.

It’s so much fun to watch him grow and discover new things every day. The simplest things we take for granted are so mesmerizing and enchanting to him. It’s really quite remarkable. At the time I’m typing this, he is making noises and playing with his fingers and toes. He’ll hold his hands in front of his face for minutes at a time (which is a long time to a baby!) and watch them move.

He discovered his toes a few months ago, and he has been rolling from his belly to his back since he was 4.5 months old. He has yet to master the back to belly, and I know once he does we’ll be in trouble because it will only be a matter of time before he starts rolling every where and then crawling! We’ve also been practicing sitting up. He’s been “talking” for some time now, too, and it’s so funny to watch & listen to him testing out new sounds.

We read together most days/nights and he seems to really enjoy Chicka Chicka Boom Boom. I can’t wait to have reading time with him as he grows up. He also enjoys doing Itsy Bitsy Spider, Patty Cake, and Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes. (Mommy sings lots of silly songs, or regular songs in silly ways, and he loves to laugh at with her..)

He’s still sleeping in a bassinet in our room, but we recently started putting him in his crib for naps. It’s going OK – today was the first day that he stayed asleep for at least an hour for both naps (the last few times he only slept for about 30-40 minutes while in the crib). I figure this is a good way to ease him into sleeping in his crib all night. He’s growing so fast that he’ll likely only be able to sleep in the bassinet for another couple of weeks. It’ll be weird to not have him right next to me.

The newest thing for him that he really enjoys is trying new baby foods! We started with rice cereal to get him used to new textures and then gradually introduced him to a few different veggies and fruits. The pediatrician recommended that we try veggies first as some babies tend to get a “sweet tooth” with fruits and then reject veggies because they’re not as sweet. We have given him a different veggie or fruit every few days to give him a chance to get used to it and to also give us a chance to see if he has any reactions. So far, he’s tried sweet potatoes, carrots, peas, apples, and we started bananas today. I’m happy to say that he enjoys them all!

He smiles and laughs so much and is generally a pretty happy baby. I feel so blessed to have him in my life. Everyday I think I can’t possibly love him more than I do and then he does something and I think “nope, guess I was wrong – I love him even more.” I can’t wait to see what the next 6 months bring!

Facebook Hiatus

One of my other plans for 2016 was to take a break from Facebook for the month of January. I logged out on my computer and uninstalled the app from my phone.

I’m really glad I took the time off. I felt like I was on it too much. I’ve never been one of those crazy status updaters but I did post every once in a while and shared lots of things (such as memes, other posts, article links, etc.). But I would mainly scroll through the news feed to see other people’s posts and whatnot. I realized that I was constantly clicking on the app and scrolling through (especially during the night after feeding Baby D) and I needed a break. Not to mention I’ve had an account since my college got it back in 2005, so I was long overdue for a break! (Side note: I sometimes miss the older versions of it before it got all crazy with games and all that junk)

Anyway, one of the upsides to not being on Facebook was that I spent a bit more time here! I actually kept up with reading posts from the blogs I follow and felt that I commented more, therefore participating in the blogging community. And I posted a bit more — and even pre-wrote some posts that I set to schedule! (usually I just write and post at the same time). So does that really mean I just traded one version of social media for another? I don’t really think so, as I feel there’s definitely more “substance” in the discussions here (and no passive-aggressive complaining!). I’ve learned things about people, sewing, crafting, books, etc. And seeing the sewing & knitting posts definitely inspired me to get back with it and attempt more projects! (I picked up my sweater knitting again!)

I also got into Instagram a bit more, and have started following more sewing and knitting accounts.

Though I logged back in on February 1, I am really going to try to limit my usage from now on and so far that hasn’t been difficult. I initially installed it back on my phone but it slowed it down tremendously, so I uninstalled it (again). So I periodically sign on from the web browser on the phone or computer. And I’ve found that I’m not logging in every day and, more importantly, don’t feel that compulsion to click on the app (though that automatic scrolling to the app on my phone stopped after a couple of days, anyway). I do still have my Instagram account linked to my Facebook account, so that’s probably going to be the majority of my connection to Facebook for now.

I may also take a month off each year, as I felt it went really well and was a nice and welcome break, especially if I catch myself logging back into it way too much.